For the Dads

Dear Dads-to-Be,

Congratulations! As you prepare to meet your little one, you may have some questions about hiring a birth photographer. Maybe your partner is excited about the idea, but you're feeling a little unsure. That’s completely normal! Let’s talk through some common concerns so you can make the best decision for your family.

1. Is birth photography really necessary?

Think about the biggest moments of your life—your wedding day, major milestones, unforgettable experiences. Chances are, you have photos of them. The birth of your child is one of the most significant days of your life, but it’s also a whirlwind. Emotions run high, time seems to blur, and details fade. Birth photography preserves these powerful moments—your partner’s strength, your first time holding your baby, that rush of love you’ll never want to forget. This is a story worth documenting, not just for you but for your child to look back on in the years to come.

2. You won’t have to worry about taking photos

Many dads feel pressure to capture photos during labor and birth, but let’s be real—that’s a lot to juggle. You’re there to support your partner, experience the moment, and meet your baby. With a birth photographer, you don’t have to fumble with your phone or stress about getting the right shots. You can be fully present, knowing that someone else is taking care of capturing the memories.

3. Will the photographer be intrusive?

This is a big one, and I get it—birth is an intimate experience. A professional birth photographer knows how to be discreet, respectful, and work within your comfort level. They focus on the emotions, the connection, and the beauty of the moment without disrupting the process. You won’t even notice they’re there most of the time!

4. What about the cost?

Birth photography is an investment, and it’s understandable to wonder if it’s worth it. But think of it this way—this isn’t just about a few pictures. It’s about preserving one of the most meaningful moments of your life in a way that no phone camera or quick snapshot can do justice. Unlike other expenses that come and go, these photos will hold their value forever. Payment plans may also be available to make it more manageable.

5. How do I support my partner in this decision?

Your partner wants to remember this day—not just the baby’s arrival, but the love, support, and connection between the two of you. Saying yes to birth photography is a way to honor and celebrate the journey you’re on together. It’s a gift to your partner, your child, and even yourself.

You’ll never regret having these moments captured, but you might regret not having them. Birth photography isn’t about staged photos—it’s about raw, real, once-in-a-lifetime moments that tell the story of your family’s beginning. So take the pressure off yourself, be fully present, and let a professional preserve the memories for you.

Sincerely,

Savannah // Kansas City Birth Photographer